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Is the Lord in any of your thoughts?

5/28/2025

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Real Dudes,
Who or what is consuming your thought life?
How often do you think about your best friend? 
How often do you think about your significant other? 
How often do you think about God? 
In Psalm 10:4 below, we read that those who are considered to be wicked/evil/prideful never make time to think about God. If God doesn’t get any, or very little of our time, then what makes us any different from them…what sets us apart?
If thinking about God is a struggle for you, then maybe try setting an alarm on your phone that reminds you to have some you-and-God-time throughout your day. Be intentional about training yourself to think about Him more often. Hebrews 3:1 below says to “fix your thoughts on Jesus.” If you fix an item to another item, then it’s tough to separate the two. Therefore, fix your thoughts on Him, keep your thoughts there throughout the day…make room for Him each day. And make it nearly impossible to stop thinking about Him. Excited about how this could make a huge impact in your life. Hope you accept the challenge.
Praying that your relationship with God grows stronger and stronger along the way. Cheering each of us on!!!

Practicing His Presence,
Nate

Hebrews 3:1 (NIV) 3 Therefore, holy brothers and sisters, who share in the heavenly calling, fix your thoughts on Jesus, whom we acknowledge as our apostle and high priest.

Psalm 10:4…
  • (NIV) In his pride the wicked man does not seek him; in all his thoughts there is no room for God.
  • (NKJV) The wicked in his proud countenance does not seek God; God is in none of his thoughts.

Hebrews 3:1 (NIV) 3 Therefore, holy brothers and sisters, who share in the heavenly calling, fix your thoughts on Jesus, whom we acknowledge as our apostle and high priest.

Hymn
: Have You Any Room For Jesus
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The Ability to Alter the Atmosphere

5/20/2025

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Real Dudes,
I recently met up with a gentleman for lunch. He was sharing with me that an individual at his place of work “has the ability to alter the atmosphere.” Some research I did pointed out that a personality that can significantly alter the atmosphere is typically described as highly charismatic, influential, and often extroverted, meaning they have a strong ability to impact the mood and energy of a group or situation through their presence, actions, and communication style.
The key traits of such a personality might include:
  • Strong social skills:
    Easily connecting with others, building rapport, and adapting to different social situations. 
  • Positive energy:
    Projecting optimism, enthusiasm, and a generally uplifting demeanor. 
  • Leadership qualities:
    Ability to inspire and motivate others, often taking initiative and setting the tone for a group. 
  • Excellent communication skills:
    Articulating ideas clearly, using persuasive language, and actively listening to others. 
Depending on the context, this type of personality could be considered:
  • A natural leader: Someone who inspires others to follow their vision. 
  • A social butterfly: Someone who thrives in social settings and easily makes connections. 
  • A mood-setter: Someone who can significantly influence the overall vibe of a room or situation. 
Does someone you work with automatically come to mind? Is it possible that it’s your personality that is altering the atmosphere everywhere you go? I guess the important question is this, is your personality altering the atmosphere in a positive or negative way? If you identify as the mood-setter as is mentioned above, then what mood are you setting in the atmosphere you find yourself in? 
My challenge for each of you is to pray for self-awareness and to ask the Lord to examine your life and motives. 
  • Self-awareness…paying attention to everything that’s going on around you and noticing how you personally are affecting the atmosphere. 
  • Examination from the Lord…praying for the Lord to bring anything to light / to surface that needs to be dealt with. The last thing you want is to be a deterrent or distraction for someone to come to the Lord. Pray that any negative, or inappropriate personality be removed from within you. And pray for a humble spirit to make the appropriate adjustments. Let’s be influencers of all that is holy and acceptable in His sight (Romans 12:1-2). 
    • Psalm 26:2 
      • (CSB) Test me, LORD, and try me; examine my heart and mind.
      • (NLT) Put me on trial, LORD, and cross-examine me. Test my motives and my heart.
    • Psalm 139:23-24 (CSB) 23 Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my concerns. 24 See if there is any offensive way in me; lead me in the everlasting way.
Here are some verses that can help you stay aware and on track…
  • Psalm 19:14 (NLT) May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing to you, O LORD, my rock and my redeemer.
  • Psalm 141:3 (NLT) Take control of what I say, O LORD, and guard my lips.
  • Ephesians 4:29 (NLT) Don’t use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them.
Remember, each of us has the ability to impact the mood and energy of a group or situation through our presence, actions, and communication style. So, whether you’re a positive (altering the atmosphere for His glory) or negative (altering the atmosphere out of selfish ambition / self-attention and self-convenience) type of influencer, hiding the verses mentioned throughout this lesson in your heart is a great place to begin…every single one of us needs to apply these verses to our lives and improve on them. I just pray that each of us can have the awareness to attempt to alter our atmosphere in a way that brings all the attention and glory to Him. Men, have some self-awareness and set aside some time for self-examination…ask the Lord to examine you. If you hear others say something about you, then process it, take it as an answer to prayer, and see how the Holy Spirit can help you make the appropriate adjustments if any are needed. You got this…cheering for each of you. 
Practicing His Presence,
Nate
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How is it possible that my sin is always before me?

5/13/2025

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Real Dudes,
In the last blog posting I touched a little bit on how Satan is a thief. Today I’d like to focus on how he’s also an accuser. 
We read this in Revelation 12:10 (CSB) 
  • “Then I heard a loud voice in heaven say, The salvation and the power and the kingdom of our God and the authority of his Christ have now come, because the accuser of our brothers and sisters, who accuses them before our God day and night, has been thrown down.”
In this verse, the “accuser” is Satan himself. And one of his roles is described for us in this verse…to accuse / point out to God all of the sins and faults of His followers. When? Day and Night…continually. One author points out that “This phrase highlights Satan's relentless nature in his accusations against believers, reminiscent of his actions in the book of Job. The continuous ‘day and night’ underscores the persistent spiritual warfare faced by Christians.” https://biblehub.com/revelation/12-10.htm 

I heard a message not too long ago from Psalm 51 (see entire chapter below). In verse 3 David points out that, “my sin is always before me.” That phrase got me thinking…is David just pointing out that he’s constantly thinking about his sin? I mean, he just asked the Lord in verses 1 and 2 to blot out his transgressions, and to wash and cleanse him thoroughly from all his sins. One author points out that “there are a number of biblical passages that obviously have continuous activity in mind…To have something ‘continually before’ one means to be constantly aware of it. Thus David’s sin, in his penitential psalm, is continually before him.” An article from gotquestions.org points out that the phrase, “‘my sins are ever before me’ is a phrase from Psalm 51:3, where David is expressing a deep sense of conviction and awareness [acknowledgement] of his own sin, meaning he is constantly mindful of his wrongdoing and feels the weight of it on his conscience, even after seeking forgiveness from God; it highlights the honesty and humility of confessing one's sins fully to God.” 

Here’s what I’m wrestling with in my mind. If David asked the Lord to do away with his sin, then why would he in the same breath want to keep his sin always and continually before himself? Yes, it’s possible that David asked for that so he wouldn’t want to go back to any of his past sins, but God forgives and forgets (Psalm 103:12; Isaiah 38:17; 43:25; Jeremiah 31:34; Philippians 3:13; Hebrews 10:14-18)…He washes us white as snow (Psalm 51:7; Isaiah 1:18; Hebrews 9:14; 1 Peter 1:18-19; 1 John 1:7)…and He is faithful and just to forgive and cleanse us from all unrighteousness (Psalm 32:5; Acts 3:19; 1 John 1:9). In Psalm 51:7-10 David goes on to express his understanding that God can hear him, purge him, blot his sins out, cleanse him, and renew him. All of which would indicate that David would not want his past sins to be constantly in his sight or memory. Maybe David is saying that up until this point of being forgiven he was constantly reminded of his past, but from this point on it is all to be forgotten. He could also be expressing that he’s so aware of what has tripped him up and he needs to be on high alert so he doesn’t revert back to some areas he’s weakest at. 

In James 1:13-15 (CSB) we read the following, “13 No one undergoing a trial should say, ‘I am being tempted by God,’ since God is not tempted by evil, and he himself doesn’t tempt anyone. 14 But each person is tempted when he is drawn away and enticed by his own evil desire. 15 Then after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin, and when sin is fully grown, it gives birth to death.
 
Satan is not omniscient, nor is he omnipresent. What Satan is intentional about is remembering which sins we allow ourselves to be tripped up by…what we reveal to him. And for him, he knows which bait to use in order to lure us in with. And when we take the bait, hook line and sinker, then he believes that’s his opportunity to run to and accuse us before the Lord. 

My point is this, as someone seeking forgiveness, seeking a fresh start, wiping a slate clean and trying to move on, I’m not sure that I would request for my sin to always be right in front of me. The temptation seems like it would be too tough to resist and my tendency would be to return to what I know once brought me comfort and joy…though false comfort and joy, it was still my safe place in a sense. It’s like telling someone not to think about something, it doesn't matter what it is, the tendency is to want to think about that thing. Can’t get my mind off of it. And after a while I need to have it again. It’d be like holding a beer can in front of a recovering alcoholic. Would they be strong enough to resist the temptation or would they cave?

So is it David keeping his sin always before himself, or could it be that Satan has learned David’s weakness and will constantly be dangling that sin in front of him to see if he’ll take the bait? Very possible. Christ’s opposition was continually seeking ways that they could find one fault in him…“when would He trip up?”…and then come in for the kill. 
  • Luke 6:7 (NLT) The teachers of religious law and the Pharisees watched Jesus closely. If he healed the man’s hand, they planned to accuse him of working on the Sabbath.
  • Luke 11:54 (NLT) They wanted to trap him into saying something they could use against him.
Could it be that the sin that is always before David is the sin, or the bait, that he has revealed to Satan in the past that he’s enticed by? That’s how I like to think of it, but I’m sure all of what was listed above is probably very true and accurate about the sin that was before David. Much the same could be said about the sin in our lives. I think it’s healthy to ask the question, “Why is this sin always before me?” Is it because I can’t let go of it and I still want it close enough to be in my sights? Is it so I can see it for how disgusting it was and never want to revert back? Or could it be that Satan is so desperate to accuse us of something before the Lord that he’ll attempt to put in front of us anything that could potentially cause us to end up in the trap once more? 

Just remember this truth, that “the context of Revelation assures believers of ultimate victory through Christ, who intercedes on their behalf, as seen in Romans 8:34 and Hebrews 7:25.” https://biblehub.com/revelation/12-10.htm The last part Revelation 12:10, the verse I started with in this blog, says what about Satan…he “has been thrown down.” Men, we have victory in the Lord. We will all fall short of the glory of God (Romans 3:23), but that doesn’t mean we’re defeated…just means that, as believers who are still living in the flesh, we’re still growing. Seek forgiveness, and thank Him for being so merciful to you when you don’t deserve it. Don’t allow Satan and his flowers to get in your head. Rather, we should “Therefore, submit to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” (James 4:7, CSB). Want Satan to get behind you? Want your sin to be a thing of the past? Then let me encourage you to begin a study on what it looks like to submit to God…trust me, you’ll never regret that decision. Here’s an article to consider and begin with https://www.gotquestions.org/submit-to-God.html 
Practicing His Presence,
Nate

For further study from gotquestions.org…What does it mean to forgive and forget?
  • “God is omniscient. He knows everything, and He forgets nothing. However, He can choose not to remember something. In human relationships, we can choose to remember the offenses someone has committed against us, or we can choose to forget. To forgive someone, we must often put painful memories out of our minds. We don’t actually forget the sin, and it’s not that we are unable to recall the offense, but we choose to overlook it. Forgiveness prevents us from dwelling on past troubles.” https://www.gotquestions.org/does-God-forget.html 

Psalm 51 (NKJV) A Prayer of Repentance
To the Chief Musician. A Psalm of David when Nathan the prophet went to him, after he had gone in to Bathsheba.
51 Have mercy upon me, O God,
According to Your lovingkindness;
According to the multitude of Your tender mercies,
Blot out my transgressions.
2 Wash me thoroughly from my iniquity,
And cleanse me from my sin.

3 For I acknowledge my transgressions,
And my sin is always before me. 
4 Against You, You only, have I sinned,
And done this evil in Your sight--
That You may be found just when You speak,
And blameless when You judge.

5 Behold, I was brought forth in iniquity,
And in sin my mother conceived me.
6 Behold, You desire truth in the inward parts,
And in the hidden part You will make me to know wisdom.

7 Purge me with hyssop, and I shall be clean;
Wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow.
8 Make me hear joy and gladness,
That the bones You have broken may rejoice.
9 Hide Your face from my sins,
And blot out all my iniquities.

10 Create in me a clean heart, O God,
And renew a steadfast spirit within me.
11 Do not cast me away from Your presence,
And do not take Your Holy Spirit from me.

12 Restore to me the joy of Your salvation,
And uphold me by Your generous Spirit.
13 Then I will teach transgressors Your ways,
And sinners shall be converted to You.

14 Deliver me from the guilt of bloodshed, O God,
The God of my salvation,
And my tongue shall sing aloud of Your righteousness.
15 O Lord, open my lips,
And my mouth shall show forth Your praise.
16 For You do not desire sacrifice, or else I would give it;
You do not delight in burnt offering.
17 The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit,
A broken and a contrite heart--
These, O God, You will not despise.

18 Do good in Your good pleasure to Zion;
Build the walls of Jerusalem.
19 Then You shall be pleased with the sacrifices of righteousness,
With burnt offering and whole burnt offering;
Then they shall offer bulls on Your altar.

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Comparison is the Thief of Joy.

5/7/2025

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Real Dudes,
I was watching
The Voice the other night and a coach reminded one of the contestants that “comparison is the thief of joy.” 

Does the Lord want us to compare ourselves with each other? Do you struggle with comparing yourself with others…either you’re better than them, or they’re better than you and now you’re in your own head. Does He want our joy to overflow in all circumstances? Are you allowing anything or anyone to steal your joy today? Consider the following passages below concerning comparing and joy and ask the Lord to bring anything to surface this morning that only He can help you have victory over. 

Comparing: 
  • Reveals a character of foolishness/ignorance. 
    • 2 Corinthians 10:12 (NLT) Oh, don’t worry; we wouldn’t dare say that we are as wonderful as these other men who tell you how important they are! But they are only comparing themselves with each other, using themselves as the standard of measurement. How ignorant!
  • Draws attention to self. Refrain from promoting yourself. Choose Humility instead. 
    • Philippians 2:3 (NLT) Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves.
  • It’s ok if others congratulate you. Just be sure to give all the praise and glory to the Lord. 
    • Proverbs 26:12 (NLT) There is more hope for fools than for people who think they are wise.
    • 1 Corinthians 3:18 (NLT) Stop deceiving yourselves. If you think you are wise by this world’s standards, you need to become a fool to be truly wise.
    • Proverbs 27:2 (NLT) Let someone else praise you, not your own mouth— a stranger, not your own lips.

Joy: 
  • The joy of the Lord is a continuously full and overflowing kind of joy. 
    • John 15:11 (NLT) I have told you these things so that you will be filled with my joy. Yes, your joy will overflow!
  • Satan would love nothing more than to steal even the smallest portion of that kind of joy. 
    • John 10:10 (NLT) The thief’s purpose is to steal and kill and destroy. My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life.
  • But understand this…Not even Satan… 
    • John 16:22 (NLT) So you have sorrow now, but I will see you again; then you will rejoice, and no one can rob you of that joy.
  • Why? Because the word “of” in Galatians 5:22 and Nehemiah 8:10c is a possessive word. Satan can’t take something that belongs to God. Do you believe that truth?
    • Galatians 5:22 (NIV) 22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.
    • Nehemiah 8:10c (NLT) Don’t be dejected and sad, for the joy of the LORD is your strength!”
  • Therefore, 
    • Philippians 4:4 (NLT) Always be full of joy in the Lord. I say it again--rejoice!
    • Ephesians 4:27 (ESV) and give no opportunity to the devil.
      • Yes, no opportunity to let the seed of anger take root as that passage is speaking about, but also no opportunity to the seed of all that is opposite of joy in your life…don’t allow him the smallest space in your life where it appears as though joy is absent or stolen from you. 

Men...give Satan no foothold in this area of comparing in your life. Praying for each of us in this area. 
Practicing His Presence,
Nate

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